Relationship

Relationship.
What is relationship.
Something between people.?
Perhaps.

Different relationship is maintained by different factors.
Enemies, friends families.
Enemies Foes.
Hatred. Distrust. Misery.
People who are insecure always mistaken.
Mistaken that people are always trying to harm them.
Cause by distrust for others.
Why bother doing when you will only bring misery to ownself.
Causing such depression and such trouble.
Pointless.
Competition.
The want to win and outbeat people.
Its good to be motivative.
But over limit will lead to destruction of oneself.
Why.
By trying hard to win.
You will be at your best.
But some will use underhand means.
To gain ultimate advantage.
Purpose? To win.
Pointless.
Might as well end your own life.
Causing such misery to others and oneself.

Mutual trust. Mutual Respect.
Something that has to be earned. No doubt.
Something that keeps a family going.
Something that keeps a brotherhood running.
Something that holds a couple together.
Something that is broken.
Will be hard to retrieve back.
A mother have to be trustful one child actions.
Yes its understandable to care.
But some are overboard.
You know it. We know it.
Personality perhaps.
A brother have to respect each other.
Stepping over head.
Conflict occurs.
Wasted.
A guy or female have to have faith in each other.
To trust in each other actions and thinking.
Believing in each other.
It you don’t respect nor trust others.
Don’t ever expect others to do so towards you.
Period.

People

People come.
People go.
Or they stay.
But definitely they will die.
We meet people everyday.
Strangers, friends buddies families.
What are friends.
A person who knows you by your name?
Or someone whom ‘just happen to know’
Perhaps someone whom you talked to before?

Definition taken from www.dictionary.com
- a person attached to another by feelings of affection or personal regard.
- a person who gives assistance; patron; supporter
- a person who is on good terms with another; a person who is not hostile
- a member of the same nation, party

Friends.
Do they just ‘come and go’
Or do they walk pass you without even saying ‘hi’
When they can even forget your name.
Or you forgetting theirs.
We got plenty of friends.
But who will be there when u needed them.
Perhaps this is the extent of buddies.
Then I ask you.
What are friends for.
Speak for yourself.
Soul-searching. Period.

Buddies.
Who you claim buddies.
To what extend. I ask. Or rather you ask yourself.
Will you die for them in their place.
Will they do the same for you.
Many punks claim. This brother.That brother.
When they talk behind another’s back.
Your die-hard buddies.
How many are you will to die for.
How many are there will to die for you.
Play and have fun together.
Wont be a problem.
But when problem arises.
Will they face it with you.
Will you face it with them.
Period.

Families.
Do you cherish your relatives.
Be it aunt. Uncle. Cousins.
Seeing them perhaps once a year?
Do you ask them well.
Do you with them well.
Or do you wish them well for the sake of red packet.
Do you even care for them.
Parents.
Do you quarrel with them.
Have you ever understand their stand.
Forsaking their unconditioned love.
Who are you to throw your voices at them.
With them giving so much to you.
Without them. There wont be you.
Who are you people.
To disobey them.
To pay them with violence.
Yes. Some parents are overboard.
But. Have you ever tried understanding their stand.
“Everything have an action and reaction”
What action of yours. Caused their reaction.
Are you right. Are they right. Or both at fault.
It takes two hand to claps.
Period.

Self Defination

Are you rich.Are you poor.Are you happy.
How do you define rich or happy.
Maybe to you, having 1 million is rich.
On other hand, maybe its only average to others.
Different people define things differently.
And its the root to your happiness.

Compare two person.
A person who yearns for the best for everything.
A person who yearns for self sufficiency.
Who would be more happy then the other.
You can see it yourself.

Best.
Whats the best possession you ever had.
Different people yearn for different things.
Sad to say. Nothing in this is world is labeled 'best'.
Because nothing is perfect, things are ever improving.
When you compare what you possess and what others have.
You will realise you have nothing compared to them.
Jealousy sets in here.
Leading to greed which will bring nothing but problems.
Yes. It might serve as a motivation.
A push for people to go an extra mile.
It all depends on the event and players.
Would you make your life miserable,
always yearning for the better,
A vicious cycle of mankind.
Or lead a simple life for self sufficiency.
Its your choice, Its your life.

Heres a story to share.
In front of a field,
There stand a teacher and a student.
The teacher said to the student.
“Walk across the field,
and pick a grass which you think is the most beautiful.
but you are not allowed to look back,
Nor turn back, only moving forward."
So the student did what he was told.
Then he found a pretty grass.
He thought to himself,
“I could find a better grass.”
So he left that grass there and moved forward.
Moments later he found another nice grass.
But he told himself the same thing.
And the cycle carried on.
Not realizing it himself,
It’s the end of the field.
Without a grass picked.

The field is your life.
The grasses are the things you came across.
Be it chances, possession or people.
Story line. Decide for yourself.